Building Trust in a Relationship How Broken is Your Relationship?

Look in the mirror.

Can you tell just by looking at yourself if building trust in a relationship is something that you can do, or are successful at? As you read every word on this page you will start to discover if you are really able to be honest with you, or have you been burying you head in the sand?

You know that you are trust worthy,  but who can tell that you are, just by looking at you? Can you trust yourself to make your life and relationship just the way you want it? Just look around you, the answer to your question is the life you have, right now! That’s right!

When you look at your partner now, do you know you can trust what they say and what they do is for the good of you and your relationship. What‘s really going on in their mind, do you know?

Do you know that your partner will be with you in 1 year, 5 years, 10 years from now? If you think you do know, what proof do you have? Is the proof you have good enough or could it be better? I expect you hope they will be, but do you really want to leave something so important to chance?

You will shortly start to notice what you really have as you start to focus on every part of your relationship. How is your relationship different now to what it was when you first met? Now take some time to think… what have you discovered about that question what answers did you get and how did those answers make you feel? What do you like about where you both are today and what don’t you like? Is this relationship what you really wished for?

“Building trust in a relationship takes two!”

Imagine now if you knew how to create the excitement you had when you first met them. We all become concerned about our relationships from time-to-time. Sometimes for good reasons and sometimes little things, like a song or a dream or maybe a movie will trigger a prang in our heart that says am I doing enough to keep this relationship? Or maybe you ask yourself if your partner is really doing enough? Are you becoming unhappy with settling for average when you know you are worth so much more.

As you can imagine there is a lot to learn about relationships because they are so complicated. So imagine if something so complicated was just left alone to do it’s own thing, and the two people in it were just along for the ride what do you think might happen? I know you know the answer to that question.

How different do you think you relationship would be if you knew exactly what to do to make sure you kept it and not only that, but every day made it better?

When you imagine that now, how would that feel? And how does that feel compared to what you really have today?

So what have you lost sight of? What have you lost control of? What is in your mind right now what are you noticing about you? Are you angry, sad, confused, do you feel guilt or a sence of despair? What is it you notice in your emotions?

What trust issues do you have as the years have passed
what have you lost?

If you are now thinking you could do more, you are probably right! If you think why should I? Then discover now how you would feel if you lost your relationship knowing you could have done more to stop your break-up. Then you will have the answer to - ”why should I?”.

Many of us discover too late that things have gone wrong? Then overcoming trust issues and gaining back the goals you started life together with, make restoring trust so difficult… but there is a soulution!

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Building Trust in a Relationship!