“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage”. Lao Tzu
There are a million and one ways to express love. A kiss, a gift, a poem, a gesture, a look, physical affection and, of course, words – all can communicate, at least in part, the intensity of what we feel.
Relationships are deeply important to us – they help keep us healthy and sane – and we all need someone to love and be loved by – whether it’s a good friend, a family member, or that special someone.
It is said that we all become poets when we fall in love, but some people find it really very hard to express their love for another person.
This might be through fear that we somehow make ourselves too vulnerable when we “lay all our cards on the table” by telling someone what they really mean to us. Or if we love someone through habit, perhaps in a long term relationship, it might be because we assume they “just know” we love them and so we don’t need to do or say anything. But of course people do need to be reminded in words and actions. Love is not passive.
Whether it’s embarrassment, fear or even laziness, not expressing your love can make you seem cold or uncaring and can, eventually, damage any relationship. Some people don’t know how to express their love, or feel it’s not necessary, or just need some new ideas and a sense of how to do it. The new hypnosisdownloads.com session “Express love” is for anyone who feels they need help in really letting the important people in their lives truly know, once in a while, how they feel. Because people are not in the world forever, so we need to appreciate them and, yes, love them, while we can.
All my best
Mark

Stephen Hedger is the relationship coach on this site.