December 30, 2011

Fear of sex

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Sex can be boring, little more than distracted mutual masturbation, or a chore, or an obligation. On the other hand, it can be a supremely wonderful merging of minds and bodies in which time and space seem set aside as ‘sex’ truly morphs into genuine ‘lovemaking’.

But for some it is terrifying.

Anxiety around sexual contact is extremely common for a variety of reasons, from perfectly rational fears of unwanted pregnancy to considerably less rational perceptions that sex is somehow ‘bad’, perhaps arising from early inculcation of the idea that sex is sinful.

Other people fear sex because they feel inexperienced and start to worry that they are not ‘good at it’ or might somehow fail. So ‘performance anxiety’ can turn what is potentially one of life’s great pleasures – and an opportunity to forge true intimacy with another person – into a nightmare of nervousness and fear.

But perhaps the greatest cause of fear of sex is having previously had traumatic sexual experiences. A single assault, or a series of them, or even just a previous partner who was insensitive and uncaring, can all make sex feel more like a weapon to be wielded rather than a delight to be shared.

The new fear of sex session for hypnosisdownloads.com seeks to help people reclaim their birthright to find pleasure and even those wonderful peak experiences of life in the sexual act.

All the best

Mark