If you are serious about finding someone you can trust, someone you find attractive someone that is reliable and has all the qualities that you desire most for a serious relationship then before you go on dates what are your goals?
When you consider the relationship you really want and the qualities you are looking for in a partner one of the key qualities that makes the difference is… how they make you feel about yourself.
The first goal is to discover what you need your perfect partner to be… below is some thoughts for you to consider. As you scan this page you’ll start to build an image of what your perfect person is like… then I’ll share with you how to get it.
What you might need…
- You want to be with someone who makes you feel great about you. They need to encourage you to get the best from yourself and not be afraid of your growth.
- You want someone who will set you free to be who you are and trust that you will always return. You want someone that wants to give to you and expects nothing in return.
- You want someone who adds value to your life and will out of no where inject fun and excitement, you will want someone who will never judges you.
- You want someone who values the relationship and you above everything and always puts it and you first.
- You want a person who is committed to creating amazing memories with you and takes constant action to ensure you get them.
- You want someone who is passionate in wanting to understand you and discover your very unique and individual needs.
- You want someone who never assumes they know what you mean and takes their time to understand you.
If you met someone that could give you all of the above how would this make you feel about you?
Knowing what you want is critical but the big question is how do you get it?
How can you find this person?
The answers are within you, because when you display all the qualities you are looking for in your imagined perfect partner you will automatically attract that type of person.
If you are a woman looking for the perfect man then be your idea of your perfect woman and give to him and make him feel like a man.
If you are looking for the perfect woman for you then make her feel like a woman and she will make you feel like a man.
Believe me this is your route to success and above all think with your heart because your head is full of fears that will stop you being who you really are, this will keep you from pain… but it will also keep you from finding your true love.
To your success…
Stephen Hedger is the relationship coach on this site.