This is for me the most important part of this site. – It is where others share their relationship successes with you!
Please feel free to read about what other have said about coaching. No matter how small their steps every action they take moves them forward towards their goals and ultimately the lives and relationships they have always dreamed of.
Thank you to everyone I have had the pleasure to meet, your stories are truly an inspiration to us all.
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“When I recently found out that my new boyfriend fears commitment from a past experience, I felt hopeless. My family and friends did not support my decisions to want to continue the relationship. Then I found Steve Hedger, and my hopelessness turned into confidence. Steve was not only a sympathetic ear, he showed me how to overcome my own fears. I now have the strength to keep the faith in the person I love most.
After several sessions with Steve I have been able to take control of my negative emotions and find a way to be positive. Through his guidance, I have been able to turn things around in a way that has shown progress in the right direction. He was always realistic and supportive in the way that others had not been. If it wasn’t for Steve, I may have missed out on the happiness I’ve been waiting for all of my life.”
Gwyneth USA
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My life was one mistake after another. Bad partner choices, wrong business decisions, one more experience of pain after another. I could not understand why my life was so crap, when all I ever did was do my best in any given situation. But it always went wrong.
Within a space of 20 years, all I had experienced was pain, loss, a real sense of constantly trying and constantly failing. A string of failed careers, relationship splits, gaining and losing my financial status, the homes, the cars, and the constant change in direction was enough to drive anyone into depression and it did.
But these were all my choices; I had no one to blame but me. My choices were bad because what I made those choices on never met what was on my values list. I just did not understand values and what an impact they would have made on my past decisions. 20 years of getting it wrong need not have happened if only I knew about values and how they can save you from pain.
Understanding what my true values are enabled me to truly get to grips with who and what I wanted in my life. When I first realised that it really does work it was amazing.
I wanted to start a new business but kept going from one idea to another. Each day went by and I could not make a decision, partly through fear of failure and part because I just lost confidence in me making the right decision.
I wrote down my list of values and started to question aloud if each business idea met with approval from my values list. I was so relieved when quite clearly one of the business options simply did not meet many of my values. So I rejected it and chose the one that met all my values. I had been told for so long the wrong information that it had completely taken over my life. I was no longer in control my life, it controlled me. Learning about values has put me back in the driving seat of my life. I have also applied what I have learnt from my values to my relationship. Last year I married a wonderful man. Is life perfect? I have realised that perfection does not exist; I am now choosing to live by my highest values in everything I do; now I know what they are. Thank you Steve.
Tracy from Oxford UK
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Dear Steve I’m not quite sure what you did to me in that last session, but after 4 months of sleepless nights worrying about my relationships, my work and my children I had the best nights sleep ever and it enabled me to think clearly about my goals and direction. Thank you so much.
Mary UK
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Steve has been invaluable in rebuilding our relationship. When we came to see Steve we both agreed that this was our last attempt at fixing our relationship. We loved each other and had tried counselling for 6 months but with no progress. The personal side of our relationship was non-existent. During the NLP coaching we both discovered what we both need to be happy and it was not what we thought. Within six 6 weeks were back on track and were making plans for our future which looked exciting again. What’s even better is now after being together for over 6 years and with a little one under 5 my husband is now dating me again.
Andrew & Sarah UK
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I had spent 15 years in 3 serious relationships and now I was alone again. I had resigned myself to being alone and came to coaching to help get over the last relationship and the death of my mother. I had been single for 6 months and when Steve talked about relationships I was not interested at all. Steve was great in talking me through all aspects of my life and focused me on the dreams I had forgotten about. I found out why my relationships had ended and this made so much sense. Then we designed my future and included a partner and that felt exciting again. My confidence started to increase and I started to date again with Steve’s help. I kept in-touch with Steve as I hit each block and he helped me through it. By the way I loved the pleasure menu. I am now dating this lovely man I’m not sure if he is the one but I am enjoying myself again and building the life I want. Oh yes and I’m planning that business now. Thank you.
Pat Scotland
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Stephen Hedger has a bold and courageous vision -
… to halt, and then reverse the rising divorce rate in this country by building into and strengthening marriages and relationships. His coaching is one significant means towards bringing that dream into reality.
Steve’s passion is borne out of personal experience and personal pain, and his course is therefore founded in some of the real issues facing couples today, whether they are just starting out, already on the road, or on the brink of breakdown.
This material is the result of many hundreds of hours of work on Steve’s behalf, so enjoy working with Steve, make the most of the opportunity it affords, and be prepared to be challenged as you take a deeply worthwhile look at something we all take too easily for granted: the quality of our closest and most personal relationships.
A Senior member of the Church of England
